Self-confidence is not something that’s going to come over night, especially for young ladies and gentlemen such as yourselves. You are going to have doubt over every single good thing people say to you. Why? Because you want the upper hand. You want to win the fight. Well, nobody wins anything unless you open your mind past your own personal beliefs. Get this in your head, you will NEVER see yourself outside of a mirror or a picture. You will never be privileged to see yourself through eyes looking at you and because we ALL are so quick to judge and see the faults—they will forever blind us. Do you really want to live a life like that? No seriously ask yourself that right now “DO I WANT TO LIVE A LIFE WHERE I AM CONSTANTLY CRITIQUING EVERYTHING ABOUT ME?” If you answer yes, stop reading right now. If you answer no, then listen up. Confidence is the key to self worth. It’s being able to say, I’m not perfect, but where I am in life I’m happy with who I am. Being able to love AND make fun of yourself is a wonderful lesson. Instead of dwelling on your flaws, make a joke about them! For instance, your love for your favorite artist. You get pulled down for that don’t you? Then make light of it! Be like, “yeah it’s ridiculous and silly but I enjoy it.” Instead of, “well you don’t understand…” and run off crying. You can’t convince anyone who has no interest in what your saying. That’s a confidence lesson. Use that in every aspect of your life. As far as your body, listen, the body you have today, it’s temporary. It’s literally just a solid form keeping your organs together. What REALLY matters, is that voice and heart within that’s reading this right now. That’s what’s going to make you attractive. That’s what’s going to get you friends. And that’s ultimately what is going to keep you alive. Be proud of who you are.